Pornography

The growth of the internet spurned a world of pornography that no one expected!  Chances are if you've been online you've either searched for sex, looked at pornography yourself, been accidentally routed to a porn site or recieved some type of sexual spam.   It's almost impossible not to run into this entity if you're an online user! 

PORNOGRAPHY FACTS

In the spirit of educating people there are many things to consider in the world of pornography.    Probably the biggest question people ask is pornography harmful?  I will provide information on both sides of this issue and let you answer the questions for yourself.  I will also share the history of pornography or Blue Movies as they used to be called.  I can tell you more and more women are interested in pornography which has spurned a whole other arm called soft-core porn. This type of pornography is usually, but not always produced by females who provide a softer, more erotic approach to the story lines, graphics and outcomes than those of the typical male focused porn.

Porn that is produced, purchased and watched by two consenting adults is between those adults.  It's not for others to say what is right or what is wrong until the element of consent doesn't exist - as in the case of child pornography.  Pornography that involves children or young teenagers is not right!  Did you know that by LAW you have to be a certain age to have sex?  That's right, it's called Age of Consent and it varies by state!  According to www.coolnurse.com, age of consent means:

"The age of consent is the age when the law says you can agree to have sex. In most countries it means until you reach this age you can not legally have sex with anyone, regardless of their age old. In the United States and Canada this is the same situation. Sometimes the law is different if you are female or male."

Everybody will have a different opinion on what the correct age should be.  In South Carolina a female can have consensual sex at age 14 as long as the male is over 16!  Six states allow girls to have sex at 16 but the boys can't until 18.  It's difficult to say what the age of consent should be and we could spend an endless amount of time arguing the point.  We all know young children and teens are too young and that focus is energy well spent.  Over time I will provide as much information as possible to combat child pornography.

Feel free to explore this topic on this website without having to view pornographic content!  Content that should not be viewed by minors will be indicated and adhere to parental controls.

 

 

Comments

Porn for women

My sex partner wants me to pick out a porn for us to watch together but won't give me any direction.  How do I decide what to get?  Is it a test or something?

go get some videos on pottery making..

If no direction ... then in bed I just bet it may be the same... I doubt it is a test... just a person who does not know how to communicate their wishes... Get a book on communication.... But now seriously.... there are some good books on Tantra that go into some great ways to satisfy either sex. that is for you.... getting porn is rather easy , but many of the titles are done poorly. You might try some communication yourself and ask what kind of porn he likes...Have you ever talkedabout what he likes to have done... have you talked about what you like ? Ok I know .... this is not what you asked... but heck it gave me a chance to verbalize some thoughts.... One thing i would watch out for.. is web porn... there are many viruses lurking in the back of the downloads... but you can search the sights as long as you have a good firewall and virus protection. then go fishing and find what turns you on... possibly it will do the same for ytour partner. see ya.

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Top Female Porn...

Anonymous you ask a great question!  I will assume by your title "Porn for women" that your partner IS a woman.  First, I would suggest you acknowledge her for asking for something new and different in your sexual relationship.  Especially if "porn" is a stretch for her!  I've got a great link for female porn - but first let me address a couple of things...

Your question about it "being a test" is interesting.  I would presume this isn't the very first time you feel "tested" by her.  Women do this to men all the time.  It's usually just an attempt to make you wrong because we are upset about something.  Or it's a test to see how well you know us which in some way proves to us you really love us because you really know us.  (Crazy, I know.)   This discussion warrants a whole new page... so back to porn.  I wouldn't worry about a test - just let it go and take the lead on this.

More and more women are becoming interested in viewing porn.  This spawned a whole new generation of female porn directors.  These directors know what women are looking for and produce films completely different from male perspective porn.  They typically have a softer side to sex, a seduction, and story but still remains attractive to men.

I do think surfing the internet with your partner might be a good way to see what she likes, but be careful.  The majority of porn on the internet is geared towards and viewed by men.  This could turn her off!  You might be better off surfing for women's feedback on their favorite female porn to get some reviews.  Then buy it and just go for it!  How you present it; how you introduce it into the bedroom and how you are with her will be the most important part.  Don't expect fireworks the first time and try it more than once if she gets shy, nervous or just can't do it.  Your positive feedback, understanding an openness will set the stage!

Check out this link of top female porn director's for a good start.  www.pornmoviesforwomen.com/femaleporndirectors.htm  Check back and let us know how it works out!

Dr. Lori